A Quick and Dirty Guide to Playing the Love Game


A Quick and Dirty Guide to Playing the Love GameMerriam-Webster dictionary defined seduction as, “the enticement of a person to sexual intercourse, something that attracts or charms.”For most men, seduction is about doing sexual things in order to get laid. That’s true. Sex is the ultimate goal for why you entice a woman. Part of seducing a girl is to be able to bring her to bed and make her experience the best sex of her life. However, female seduction is not just about sex. And apparently, it’s not easy as it seems. But you probably already know that. Most teenage boys, or even young men, have to hone this special skill. Awkward at first, you probably picked it up pretty fast. Women will let you know what they want, which helps you both connect and engage with each other much easier. Believe it or not, seduction is an art, a special skill, something that you need to learn in order to be successful in it. It is not about money, good looks or your perfectly-chiseled body. These things are only supplemental to the art of seduction. So, before you wreck your brain cells by thinking too hard about how to properly seduce a woman, here are some simple, but effective things you need to do. Just save the thank you for later. We understand.

1. Establish A Physical Attraction

Physical AttractionThis is first, and should be on top of your list when it comes to seduction. Before you know every playboy’s secret to seduce the girl of your dreams, make sure physical attraction is established. How can you do that? By making sure you look clean, presentable and well-groomed. Yes guys, your hygiene is very important. It doesn’t matter if you don’t look like Brad Pitt or George Clooney. It’s okay if you don’t own clothes that bear the most expensive brand labels. What is important is that you are clean enough to make women notice. Try this:
  • Take a daily bath or shower.
  • Brush your teeth at least twice a day.
  • Floss your teeth at least once a day.
  • Use cologne or after shave.
  • Wear clean, unwrinkled, unripped clothing.
  • Smile.
These little tips may seem simple, but they are the first step towards seduction. Just keep this in mind. If you lack something in the hygiene department, then there is no way a girl will let you seduce her.

2. Make Yourself Look Harmless

bad boy imageWomen go crazy over men with a bad boy image. Hello, Christian Bale? For reasons unknown to men, the ladies find bad boys attractive and sexy. However, this does not mean you should live with that bad boy image and act like a jerk all the time. Remember, you are trying to seduce the girl of your dreams, so you have to make yourself look harmless. Apparently, this is not high school anymore. No matter what the amount of your swag is, make sure you present yourself as a harmless dude whose primary goal is to get to know the girl, not get in her pants. Smile, communicate and try to remember everything she says. Keep in mind that a woman can sense whether you are truly interested in her as a person, or you are simply looking at her, well, nice boobs.

3. Try Your Best To Be Charming

Okay, this is a challenging one. Apparently for many men, being charming is not exactly their way of seducing a girl. They feel that this technique shows a sign of weakness and makes them look vulnerable – which is simply not true. Remember this: Successful seduction is a combination of many different things. Your appearance, intelligence and the projection of how successful you are in life are all important tools to be able to seduce a woman. However, the majority of which is charm.
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Yes, charm. Just like seduction, it is an art. To be able to do this perfectly, you need to let a woman know that you feel good about them. In fact, there is a feeling of interest somewhere and at the same time, pay attention to them without asking for anything in return. What do you think is the best way to show that boyish charm? Eye contact, of course. Keep in mind that the eyes are windows to one’s soul. Making eye contact with her really sends the right signals: confidence, sincerity and vulnerability. This may seem like a contradiction, but women appreciate a man who is honest and real, not a game player.

4. Be Smart

gorgeous womenPicture this: you are out on a date with one of the most gorgeous women in your office. Somewhere in the date, she mentioned something about politics and how President Obama saved lives with the Affordable Care Act. Then you were there, nodding your head and smiling occasionally because you don’t even know what the Affordable Care Act is. Okay, can you spell awkward? Women want men with brains, as much as you want them to have one. Believe it or not, they will want your brain first more than your body. If you are unable to hold a decent, meaningful conversation, well, you could be in big trouble. Once the initial honeymoon period is over and things settle down, it will be your mind she’s interested in. However, this doesn’t mean you should have a fancy degree from some expensive university to get the label, “smart.” You just have to ignite a woman’s mind, engage her thoughts and opinions on certain things, and provoke thoughtful and with sense conversation. Stay away from topics, such as previous relationships, or sex, because it sends the message that you’re only after one thing – and she doesn’t want that – and think about it, neither do you. And yes, pay attention to every word she says. She’ll appreciate that, for sure.

5. Create An Emotional Connection

Always remember this: Sex is not just a physical thing for women. For them, it’s going beyond looks and making a connection on an emotional level. Yes, you guessed that right. Sex is also an emotional act for women. If you want to seduce them, you also have to connect with them emotionally. Otherwise, just forget about sex, since you will never get laid. Emotional ConnectionHow can you do this? Well, you have to be sincere. When you say she is beautiful, you have to really mean it. Don’t use the “you are really pretty” line just to get her into your bed. Remember, being genuine can take you a long way. And yes, women can tell if your flattery is going beyond the line and if you really mean what you say. They are smart creatures, so give them the treatment they deserve.

6. Be The Man She Wants To Introduce To Her Parents

Sadly, these days, people forget what the concept of “manners” and “etiquette” is any longer. In this day and age of technology, many people are saying that chivalry is dead. Whatever. If you want to bring seduction to the next level, it won’t hurt if you open the doors, pull out a chair for her, and act like a complete gentleman. When crossing streets, make sure she is on the safe side. Lead her by placing your hand on her lower back. Make her feel protected. It may not seem a lot, but these little things make a woman feel that you actually care for her and value her. No one told you this, but etiquette is the solid foundation of a true gentleman. Therefore, conduct yourself with the best of manners. Be respectful. Don’t make her feel that the reason you are doing this is because you want sex after, either. Going back to tip number five, be sincere. It really does go a long way.

7. What About Kiss And Tell?

Kiss And TellLet’s face it. It is so easy to destroy someone’s reputation these days. All you need is a Facebook account, a decent internet connection, a laptop and ruining someone else’s life is right at your fingertips. Well, women are both aware, and afraid of that. Remember the harmless guy tip? The reason why women don’t want to be seduced is because they are scared their reputations will go down the line. At the same time, they won’t risk their reputation by going out with someone who is famous for telling the entire universe about their sexcapades. If you are a kiss-and-tell type of dude, then you must have a big problem. Sadly, you will have trouble finding your prey, since no girl would want to be around you. On the other hand, assure her that you care about her reputation and will never try to taint something that is difficult to take back. Again, prove that you are harmless, and what you are doing for her is sincere and genuine. It’s going to take a lot of convincing but surely, it will be worth it in the end.

8. Make It About Her – Most Of The Time

You might say that a one-sided relationship is bad. You have a point. However, every playboy master will tell you that the art of seduction is about focusing on a woman’s needs, with giving her pleasure as the end goal. In other words, make it all about her, both in and out of the bedroom. makes her happy and excitedFocus on what makes her happy and excited. While in bed, don’t immediately jump into her and force yourself inside her. Being too forward is nothing short of a crime, and you don’t want to suffer the consequences, right? And while in bed, take some time to explore her entire body. Don’t just focus on her boobs and lips down there because that is so yesterday. Women have tons of soft spots, which you can take advantage of, so make sure to tap on those spots, as well. Once she notices that you are giving her pleasure, she will surely return the favor. Ricardo Montalban once said, “Any man can seduce multiple women, but a true man knows how to keep one woman happy for the rest of her life.” Just follow these tips and you will surely be the master of seduction in no time – and find true love and happiness, too.